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Saturday, September 15, 2012
Wednesday, September 5, 2012
No Maid Needed
As a no-longer-studying-but-now – fulltime- working-mother, and
is raising two under 5 extremely active toddlers, I could feel like sometimes that
24 hours God gave us is not enough.. working day and night, trying to juggle my
teaching demands, my small family obligations(but still they r my obligations),
and keeping the house clean.. towards some extent, somehow sometime I could feel
over-burdened and get cranky with..People..(defining people, they are my
surround friends) suggesting me to get a maid..the live-in maid. And I always
resort myself by giving them my standard answer that Oooo I can't afford a maid
or a housekeeper..Well I have reasons for not having a maid..
The biggest concern would be the safety of my kids though its
true enough that I have several friends that are working and leaving their babies,kids
with maids while they are out working and they seem ok. But being me, I always
being worry of my kids- their safety, especially when having the idea of
leaving my kids alone at home with a totally stranger as most maids are those
from outside Malaysia. Yes I know that I am not a superhuman and I know that I
can’t handle everything on my own, and a clean house is essential to a comfortable
life but I would rather face a sink full of unfinished dishes/ untidied bed/
undone laundry/ ‘a kapal karam nak pecah’ living room with my kids’ toys THAN
having in mind a constantly suspicious feelings having a stranger in my house
handling my kids and they are ALONE!
As for now, Alhamdulillah having a GOOD and BESTEST husband
who always tries to understand my situation, always tries to give a helping
hand scrubbing the toilets’ floor, dusting the house, handling the laundry when
he has the chances to do so, help to keep an eye on the kids when I am needed
in school during weekends, I still don’t think that having a maid is the kind
of luxury that I would dream off…at least for now la…;)
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